Offering their advice to fans who reached out to them for help, these 5 celebrities have shared the pearls of wisdom they’ve picked up from simply living life. Some turned into an agony aunt and tried to help with specific problems fans had, while others issued general life advice in the hopes of inspiring someone in a difficult situation. Here is the advice they gave out!
Ariana explained to fans that they should work on self acceptance: “Try to focus more on improving the things we actually can control / change…. our outlook, our state of mind, our ego, the way we treat others, the way we treat ourselves, showing more appreciation, not giving into our fears, the way we react to obstacles, etc.. some of the most important work we do during our time here on this earth is the work we do on ourselves. and it’s hard work too. love youuuu tons.”
Demi told fans to watch out for friends who aren’t growing up with you: “When you’re growing and the people around you aren’t, that’s when you have to start shedding them. I’ve done that a lot over the past few years, but it has been so worth it, because the people in my life today inspire me to keep being creative, to have fun, and to be a good person.”
When asked how to deal with relationship trust issues by a fan, Rihanna responded: “Anytime I have trust issues, I often assume that it has a lot to do with myself. Most of the time it’s difficult to differentiate. Intuition and insecurities! But no one ever wants to wait to figure it out. Whatever we do, we don’t want to feel stupid! So we tend to jump the gun with no evidence to back it up.”
Selena reached out to a suicidal fan after seeing worrying twitter updates. She wrote: “People everyday feel so many emotions they wish they could turn it off. But that’s not why we are here. We are here for relationships, for people just like us who feel worthless. Your purpose is to share, help, encourage. Remember that. Please. Before you think of taking your life, think of all the (lives) you could save. I love you. More importantly there is a God that will love (you) more than I ever could.”
Taylor offered a fan break-up advice: “Heartbreak is awful enough. The fact that you have to endure this kind of emotional abuse is so wrong. I know it’s hard but I think it’s time to utilize the ‘block’ feature on your phone. This is just damaging.”